Dating?

 

There is a question that each one of us has asked ourselves at least a couple times throughout our life. All races’ genders and ages. That question being who I am going to marry one day. That question is not really important to some people while others can not stop thinking about it. The simple answer is we do not know. We might have hopes or dreams of who we would like to end up with but the truth is it is nearly impossible to predict. But what can help is how we approach marriage and who we date. The path way and approach to marriage and who we date can be a huge part of who we marry and the kind of marriage we will end up with.

              One of the most important aspects of marriage Is how we approach marriage. If you want to have a meaningful marriage that means you will need to make dating meaningful too. I know it is hard to wrap your head around or completely understand. Those that make dating a priority before they get married will become a lot closer and have a stronger relationship. What the most popular thing to do these days is to simply hang out. Which is fine and not the worst thing in the world but you guys it is simply not good enough. When you both go and make a plan for you and the person of interest plan and go do something it shows to the other person that they are a priority and that you care. There is nothing more building for a relationship then to show that you care for one another. Another huge part of dating is to simply have fun. There is a lot more fun to be having with someone you like while going on an interesting planned activity.

              Another big part of preparing for marriage is who you date. There is that old saying that says you end up marrying who you date. But then again you do not marry every person you date. The culture for dating has become a lot more strict and rigid. A huge part for dating is to talk to people and figure out some positive of who you are looking for in a companion. That means as you date look and find what is most attractive to you and decide what you want in your future companion. As well that can go the opposite way too. While on a date with someone and they do something unattractive or something that is not what you want in a future companion remember it. That is what dating is for it is to learn and figure out who you are compatible with and what would be best for you.

              As we talked about earlier that it is simply impossible to predict who we will end up; marrying. We can wish and hope for all sorts of different people but in the end we simply do not know. But what we can do is prepare for marriage and who we will end up marrying. We can prepare best by changing our habits of casual hanging out to dating. As well we need to focus on who we date. Focusing on who we date is a huge contributor to who we end up marrying and the type of person they are. As we do those things it will change our aspects and experience with dating. We all at one point on our life have hought about who we are going to marry so lets take a few small steps to help us find the one.